In my last post I wrote How To Easily (and Lazily!) Make Your Loved One Feel Special. Not too many people, talk of those who are single on Valentine's day. Yet, for those who are single, Valentine's day may not be too pleasing.
So I would like to dedicate this Valentine Vanity post to all those who are single; today. Or as a friend of mine phrased it, to the people "On the shelf". The first time, I heard that I thought it was partly mean. Then the more I thought about it, the more funny it seemed! Anyway, I too have been in and out of shelf (often!). Through life experiences, I have come to terms with the fact that People Come Into Your Life For A Reason, A Season Or A LifetimeSo, this list is a collection of my Incidental Gleanings as well as observations. Moving on….
Of Trusting someone
Of the future
The list goes on.
I have heard a saying, "Some men go through a forest and see no firewood". Not only men, but I believe it applies for women as well. Sometimes, may be the person you are looking for may be right in front of you. However, for some imbalance of destiny you might not be aware of it!
#3. Sky High Expectation
Each of us have some sort of an expectation. Personally, I don't think you should settle for less. Then on the other side of the equation there are those who dream of a "perfect partner". While in relationship reality it is a give give, and a take. (note the two gives!)
Technology, has given us so many benefits in the past decades and still continue to do so. However, it has also made people "loners". Does that make any sense? More and more people prefer to sit in front of a computer and play games, chat ,browse the net etc rather than meet people in person. The same could be said to those who enjoy the books, Television etc as well.
Some could have gone through a breakup or a loss of a loved one. You might be seeking for some recuperating time.
It really makes me sad to hear stories where, girl loves boy but the boy repeatedly says he has no feelings for her (and visa versa). In such situations, one party might hold on to the other person, and hope that fate will change. Usually, these have a sad ending. So, for what ever reason, if you are waiting for somebody, make sure that it is really really(purposely repeated!) worth the trouble.
#7. Improper Personal Grooming
This one is mostly, for guys. Finger nails, mustache etc etc Basically, the hygiene factors!
Having said that, I don't think that there is anything "wrong" with being single. If you are happy with who you are, and what you are doing, the I'd just say 'Just enjoy being you'!
What do say?
Dale Carnegie Guide to a Happier YOU
Year 2007: An Invitation To Enhance Your Life
You HAVE TO Love What You Do
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